Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Handwriting

I got a gift from Brenda the other day - a belated Christmas, nice-to-see you, thanks for supporting me gift from one of my favorite missionaries and one of the top-10 people in the world - seriously, she's that cool - one of the top 10 in the world (and probably one of the only readers of my blog, so hey, I gotta love her!).. anyway, she had some fun little things in the gift-bag, but as I was typing my "thanks for giving me this" e-mail I realized what I loved most was the card, because she had written me a note on it and I love her handwriting. It's curvy, neat, feminine, symmetrical and makes me smile - she has happy handwriting and it reminds me of her. She makes a flower over some letters, but not in a high-school Tiffani with a heart over the "i" annoying kind of way, but in a nice, "Brenda likes to make things pretty" kind of way...

This got me to thinking about how much we have lost in our quest for speed and "continuous improvement". Handwritten cards and notes are the exception now, not the rule.. e-mail and text messages are the communication channels of choice. And for the most part I agree. But an e-mail message just doesn't look as pretty in a scrapbook.. and you can't fold a text message up in your pocket.. Even when I do send letters/notes, for the most part I buy a Hallmark card that someone else has penned... oh, I add a little note at the bottom, but the main part of the card is printed.

For Valentine's Day Greg surprised me with the flower delivery to work on Monday (see picture in the post below), but he also sent me Valentines in the mail - every day for 4 days - and I loved them! They were silly and sweet but he had written little comments on them that made me smile and fall a little bit more in love with him (he even covered the envelopes with little heart stickers.. so sweet!!). I loved reading his little notes partly because I enjoy seeing how her wrote them - his handwriting.

What is it that is so special about handwriting? Everyone's is different. It says something about you. Handwriting analysts would say that it gives clues as to the personality of the writer. In this automatic, one-size-fits-all culture the act of sitting down and writing to one person is very deliberate and honoring. When I think of "real" handwriting I think of someone with a quill and ink scratching out really important words on parchment - the Magna Carte, Shakespeare writing a play, or an ancient scribe writing the Scriptures on a scroll. I can almost hear the pen tip scratch the surface of the paper...

There are a few letters/cards that I have kept over the years - letters from my dad when he was out at sea with the navy, notes from my mom encouraging me after I had moved away, love letters from old boyfriends, and correspondence from dear friends affirming me. It's fun to pull them out from time to time and be reminded that yes, there are some people on the planet who think I'm ok, or even fabulous! And even though they aren't written by His hand, the Bible is the collection of God's letters to us - His love letters, His little notes to encourage and inspire us, His reminders that He thinks we're fabulous. I've been keeping a prayer journal for over 10 years now and it is fun to go back and see how God was using a verse or situation to teach me - when I see His word in my handwriting it becomes more a part of me... when I pray a verse or claim a promise, His words back to Him - then the verse becomes more alive and real to me.

What's God been writing to you lately? Are you reading His letters? I'll bet there is something fabulous waiting for you!

Monday, February 11, 2008

Week of Love!

Well, this is a special week.. yesterday, February 10th marked the one-year anniversary of the first date that Greg and I went out on, and this Thursday is Valentine's Day..

To celebrate the latter Greg is taking me to the Country Club where they are having a special Valentine's Day Dinner!

To celebrate the former we went out for a lovely brunch yesterday after church, and for dinner Greg prepared a fabulous steak dinner which he served me beside the fire while watching a romantic comedy.. (well, the movie was a bit of a bust, we turned it off after about 30 minutes, it was a bit raunchy.. poor Greg, he is getting a reputation for picking out not the best movies!). I gave him 4 framed pictures of us - (from 2nd qtr picture of us in Chincoteague VA, from 3rd qtr pic of us in Arizona, 4th qtr pic of us in NYC, and from 1st qtr a pic of us from Saturday). Last month when we were shopping for frames I said I wanted to get "love" frame and he rolled his eyes saying oh geez.. so of course I HAD to give him not one but two love frames!!! (the other 2 pics are in nice "normal" frames!)... he has bravely brought one of the "love" framed pics into his office.. can't wait to hear how his coworkers respond!

Today he surprised me with a delivery of my favorite flowers - lillies - to my office! Aren't they beautiful!?!?! The card reads "Be My Valentine, Love Greg".... awww... so sweet! When I called him to thank him for the lovely delivery he even alluded to yet more deliveries this week... hmm... what's that about?!?! Stay tuned! :)

Saturday, February 09, 2008

My Beautiful Sister and Her Beloved

My sister Sarah is the first of us to get married - and her big day is coming up next month!!! She just sent us a "peak" at her engagement pictures and they are sooooo adorable! Sarah is a real beauty and Mike is a cutie, so together they are just the most picture perfect couple! They are going to have some beautiful kids, aren't they!?!

http://brockmans.org/web/photography/

I am so excited for Sarah, but it also marks a change in our family structure.. this past Christmas was different in that we had little Elizabeth around, so we had to shuffle things to fit better into her schedule... just before Christmas I was down in North Carolina with Greg's family, and Sarah flew out to Ohio after Christmas to meet all of Mike's family.... so we are about to embark into the uncharted waters of extended family....


I think we all knew how precious and fragile our time as just a nuclear family was - which is why we made sure we went on that cruise over Thanksgiving together, and why my parents relocated from new england to here last year, and why we all made Tuesday family dinners at Mom and Dad's a priority. I cherish my parents and sisters and am so grateful for each one, and it's such a blessing that we like one another and enjoy spending time together. Now there is this strange new thing happening - there are BOYS in our family now! Will they change the way we relate? Will they leave the toilet seat up (forbid it!) or make lots of sports analogies, or do other things to disrupt our little eco-system? Probably. Change happens.. doesn't mean it's bad, it's just different. And that's ok... the old saying "make new friends but keep the old" is true for family too - welcome the new ones but keep your relationships with the "old" ones also...

so I'll be flexible..

I'll welcome and cherish..

I'll embrace and relinquish...

and I'll check the toilet seat before sitting down!


Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Wednesdays with Elizabeth!

I am sooo excited! My sister Chrissie has graciously agreed to let me have Wednesdays with my fabulous niece Elizabeth - so I'll be picking her up from daycare (hope to leave work by 4) and then do something fun with her, feed her dinner, bathe and put her to bed! Nice that she goes to bed so early (by like 6:30!) because then as long as Chrissie is back I can pop over to small group at 7pm... I am excited about this for a number of reasons:
  • #1 - to have a "regular" time to spend with Elizabeth - to create memories, establish an ongoing relationship with her
  • #2 - to help Chrissie out, give her a "night off" and a time to run errands, get her hair done, whatever,
  • #3 - it fits nicely in my schedule - makes me leave work at a specific time and I can still do my "evening" activity.
As a planner it gives me great joy to be able to accomplish TWO things in one night! :)

My best friend Laura is a great role model to me in the way she makes spending time with her nieces and nephew a priority. She sets up times with them - when they were little she'd take one on a Saturday and they'd do fun stuff, spend the night and go to church with her in the morning.. as they got older rather than getting them a birthday present she'd plan day-trips with them - take them skiing, or to New York or Washington DC just the 2 of them - lets them experience something new and gives them adventures together... with one niece she'd take Fridays off work and spend the day with her and another of her friends who is a stay-at-home mom, and they would take the kids together and go to the pool, play tennis, check out a nearby event... for the past ~5-10 years her Christmas present to them has been to take them on vacation along with her parents - this gives the grandparents special time with the grandkids, and they have been some amazing places - western Canada, lakes in NY and new england, renting a house on the Chesapeake... for her eldest niece's high school graduation she took her to Europe for a week!

So I am starting out small - just a few hours on a Wednesday evening.. who knows - perhaps for Elizabeth's high school graduation we'll be jetting off to the moon for a weekend!?!? :)